i'm not sure how to title links but anyways.... i was reading a couple other very good blogs on this site and it got me thinking about a couple different things.  first of all i have noticed a pattern... people who don't have it so bad (like me for example) often don't feel very good about their life and enjoy bitching and complaining.  now honestly, what do i have to complain about (yes everyone has ... history ... and i may get into that later ... but it isn't that bad in comparison to probably a large amount of people).  yet i still complaing and so do many others with good lives... this has drawn me to my conclusion that your perspective and feelings about life and ... things (for lack of a better word)... is completely up to ourselves ( not really a new conclusion)  i was thinking about this whole idea while reading  this blog http://alohalani.motime.com . check it out it's good (ahh foo fighters : i... i'm a one way motorway... (??)). such depressing music.  so on to my next thought.  i've been listening to bob dylan a lot.  in the last few years i have lost my roots in music (the beatles, bob, eric clapton, ccr) and i miss them.  bob is a truly amazing guy and i think it is a shame my friends compare bright eyes to hmm... sigh.  this thought came to me while i was reading this blog http://greysight.motime.com they have a cool story going check it out.  i will probably post again lol.  till some other time... cause it's times like these....