i've noticed that people that are unhappy or depressed or what not have the mind set that no one else understands.  seems as if everyone in that situation has that mindset but i don't believe that.   i think everyone understands what it is like but we expect other people to help us out of that pain... give us a hand...  i don't believe that people can do that.  i believe that we are the only ones that  can truly get us out of that dark corner, away from the pain and because no one else can help us we come to the mindset that no one else understands.