sometimes i go through old stuff from elementary school and read my writing.  I usually find that my views were pretty dumb... not all but a lot.... ya know i've learned a lot since then... so because of this i've decided that the best way to judge our behavior, ideas habits, mannerisms and whatever else, is to try to imagine what we will think of them if we remembered them 10 or 20 years from now.... cause most of the stupid shit we do we don't remember.... so we don't have a chance to tell ourselves how dumb that was....