it is strange how sometimes when you are running up the stairs and your foot misses the next step.... you tumble down and you just sit there for a second... everything stops... whereve you were going, whatever you were doing, not important and out of your mind just like that *snap*.  i also often think how strange it is that you may never see someone again.... if you pass them on the street it is irrelevant and doesn't bother you, if you meet them for a day they may or may not leave an impression on you and you may or may not give it a second thought, if you know them for a long time it can affect your entire life...  so why is it ok to make fun of people for things that they can supposedly "help" but not for things people can't help.  if people could help the things you are amking fun of wouldn't they? and even if they don't want to then why are we making fun of people for being how they want to be?   but then on the other hand isn't it ok to make fun of people if they will never find out because some people are getting enjoyment out of it and it isn't hurting anyone..... i had it and then i lost it again...