i promised i would not censor myself and this is what's on my mind.... one of my friends who got screwed by my school (who i mentioned earlier) is now feeling the full punishment of the schools actions... when it happened i immediately told him he should fight it... it was his right as a student to fight it and i think it was his job since he did get royally screwed but it seemed like he immediately came off with the a victim's attitude, if you know what i mean... like "i got fucked and i can't do anything about it, this whole situation is hopeless"... he even disagreed with his parents appeal and i told him that there was going to be stuff throughout the year that he was going to want to do and that is the reason to fight it, that the whole situation is not just going to go away... but he insisted he wanted to just ignore it till it did...well it seems to me that it is finally affecting him... sorta setting in... thing is i still don't know if he wants to fight it... seems like he still has the attitude that there is nothing he can do and he should just roll with the punches... he doesn't complain much about it... i just know it bugs him.... and i think that in such a situation there is no way i would just sit back and leave it all alone...