it is disgusting what our idea of "success" has become in this country.... owning your hown home is supposedly "the American dream" but i sure as hell don't want a house that i have to spend all my weekends upkeeping... or a car that i'm working on fixing whenever i'm not working on the house.... i want to ride the subway to work and experience life with other people.  i want to live somewhere that is suited to how many people are living there... i want to be able to walk places.... i want to be happy, then i will be successful.