talking about clothes... i'm trying to get into a cycle of not projecting an image with my clothing but this is harder than you might imagine because people will judge you on your clothes no matter what you wear.  there are not neutral clothes in a highschool.  i don't want to wear something because it is "cool" there is no such thing as "cool", cool is just what our society or media has brainwashed us to like or in some cases caused people to do the opposite in a counter-culture sorta of way but it is all the same.  i want to wear clothes because they are comfortable but at the same time i don't want people saying "hey he is fucking ugly" because clothes do make a difference in  how good you look.  i can't just turn people off at first sight.... so this is a vicious cycle, how do we get out of it?  what is comfortable and neutral?  but then if i am looking for neutral i am still trying to project an image, so what is comfortable and cheap is a better question.  or perhaps i do want to project an image, hjow do i get over that?  sigh clothing is stupid and coolness is just a figment of our imagination....