so i have had trouble keeping up with this and all the blogs i enjoy reading.  in fact i have forgotten some of them.  i guess it is just as well hmm.  so i've decided that if anyone has my blog on their links i will add them to my links so let me know if you do.

Sleep / Sleep tonight / and may your dreams / be realized

i have had an inner struggle for a long time.  Is it morally ok to take advantage of someone in a relationship?  i believe its not but i can't really justify that.  i believe it's not because it is wrong to take advantage of people.  it happens in realtionships all the time.  almost everyone is exposed to it in their life.  yet it is wrong... or is it... it is not everyone responsibility to look out for everyone else.  we all must be able to look after ouselves.  yet people are incapable of it.  people are taken advantage of all the time.  so, fully knowing that you must watch out for yourself, is the person that takes advantage really at any fault.  i logically can't say that they are.  but yet if we all looked out for everyone else and followed the golden rule the world would be a lot nicer.  so i don't know.  i guess just because everyone else does it doesn't make it "right" (everyone though we can't even define what "right" is).  so i am still stuck at the same conclusion (indecision) with a slight leaning towards not taking advantage of people.